Serenity
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Post by Serenity on Nov 17, 2004 9:07:19 GMT -5
ok so here is the scoop Sordar already knows half of it, well my boyfriend has been actting distant, he tends to treat me as a good friend not a girlfriend, when I mentioned it to him he said that he just gets a little shy and that he does not want to flaunt out relationship around, but then I walk down the halls at school and see him flirting with this other girl, the first time I gave him the bennift of the doupt and ignored it thinking that I had just walked in at a bad time, but he does it alot now. that is what I had talked to Sordar about, anyway I confrounted him about it and now he seems more distant than before, he did take me out once after words and all but now it is like when he walks down the hall he does not see me he will just keep walking. that is unless I saysomething then he will talk to me but really all he says is "HI" then he is stareing off at something else.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! PLEASE HELP ME!
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Post by Jobiwon on Nov 17, 2004 9:55:29 GMT -5
well kid... it seems to me like you have done everything you can by just talking to him. I say confront him one last time, discuss exactly how u feel about him and exactly how he feels about you. if you don't get anything out of him, or if his feelings are less than you had thought, then end the relationship. you deserve better than what he is doing to you. if he won't treat you right find someone who will
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Shadowcore
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Post by Shadowcore on Nov 17, 2004 14:44:17 GMT -5
yeah sere if he dont stop ignoring u then dump him but do as jobiwon said first and see how he feels about your relationship
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Serenity
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Post by Serenity on Nov 17, 2004 20:34:55 GMT -5
I don't want to lose him though, true I don't want him to do what he is doing but the last thing I wan't is to lose him.
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Post by Jobiwon on Nov 17, 2004 21:08:52 GMT -5
that's why you talk to him again. but if nothing helps, you both might be better off just letting go. i know i must come off as rather callous and apathetic... but you deserve to be with someone who will pay attention to you. and if he's unhappy in the relationship, he deserves to be set free to find someone he can be happy with. Just talk to him, and do what's best for both of you.
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Serenity
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Post by Serenity on Nov 19, 2004 8:56:24 GMT -5
alright
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Goldra
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Post by Goldra on Nov 21, 2004 6:04:03 GMT -5
sere there are many fish in the sea so you can dump him and find another one... that's what i would do if me and sodar broke up
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Serenity
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Post by Serenity on Nov 21, 2004 10:41:45 GMT -5
Goldra, just dumping him is not an option Mike (not from this site) and I have been dateing since the 7th grade, that is 5 years.
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Post by Jobiwon on Nov 21, 2004 21:54:54 GMT -5
5 years?! u 2 were going out for FIVE YEARS?? and how long has he been ignoring you like this?? this changes things quite a bit... i thought u 2 were going out a couple of months... maybe half a year tops...
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Serenity
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Post by Serenity on Nov 22, 2004 8:49:10 GMT -5
it was a recent thing but I took your advice and we talked he said he was sorry and promised things would get better. thanks.
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Post by Jobiwon on Nov 22, 2004 12:07:44 GMT -5
i'm glad things worked out for ya... i'd have felt horrible if i had my advice had ended a 5 year relationship just like that
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Serenity
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Post by Serenity on Nov 23, 2004 9:04:40 GMT -5
I Love mike to much to let it end like this anyway.
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Goldra
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Post by Goldra on Nov 29, 2004 18:34:43 GMT -5
aww i wonder where sodar is
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Shadowcore
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Post by Shadowcore on Dec 9, 2004 13:48:10 GMT -5
he i am back glad u to worked out sere at this rate we might se sere haveing kids lol
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Post by Shadowcore on Dec 15, 2004 14:10:10 GMT -5
dont tell me u r geting ideas
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Goldra
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Post by Goldra on Dec 16, 2004 15:26:25 GMT -5
not any more after what you did
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Shadowcore
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Post by Shadowcore on Dec 22, 2004 14:54:08 GMT -5
come on it wasnt that bad
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Serenity
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Post by Serenity on Dec 23, 2004 11:47:44 GMT -5
... ? ? ? I think I missed something
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Goldra
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Post by Goldra on Dec 28, 2004 12:40:15 GMT -5
here we go sere was out with sodar and i went across the street to buy a new key because mine got bent and when i come back i see him kissing another girl!!!
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Serenity
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Post by Serenity on Dec 28, 2004 14:28:25 GMT -5
JERK!!!!!!
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Post by Jobiwon on Dec 28, 2004 23:53:25 GMT -5
?? is this one of those occasions where i have to get a group of friends, arm them with various sharp objects and hunt a certain someone down?? cuz if it is... i have some sharp objects ready... and i can get a hold of several friends rather quickly
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Goldra
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Post by Goldra on Dec 29, 2004 7:33:52 GMT -5
yse it is jobiwon
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Post by Jobiwon on Dec 29, 2004 9:33:21 GMT -5
wasn't actually expecting a yes there... most people just laugh at me... oh well... where does the kid live??
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Serenity
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Post by Serenity on Dec 29, 2004 21:59:02 GMT -5
*holds up sharp object* I am ready
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Goldra
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Post by Goldra on Dec 31, 2004 15:23:34 GMT -5
lets just say i am not excatly shure
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Serenity
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Post by Serenity on Jan 2, 2005 20:19:53 GMT -5
....*lowers sharp object* no hunting down any one? : (
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Post by Jobiwon on Jan 2, 2005 21:26:11 GMT -5
not sure where he lives?? or not sure you want to help me hide the body??
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Goldra
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Post by Goldra on Jan 9, 2005 11:22:42 GMT -5
not shure where he lives i uslally never went to his house we always met at hot topic
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